Thanks folks, this a great forum.
Bike will now will start under all the above conditions, but i would like to find an issue so i can have confidence again, the fuel pump is buzzing away well, but i dont trust it.
I will source a new pump ( thanks docc ) but not sure thats it, do they fail interrmitantly ? ( spell ). Cant seem to find a reason it didnt work.
When i disconnected the sidestand and it worked i was happy, but then all back together , no pump.
I can only think connections on fuel pump. I think my rides will be near home for a while, but we got a great burger place 15 miles away so 👍